Complex Divorce Cases: When Life Imitates Art
Like many Alexandria family lawyers, we have encountered complex and curious divorce cases over the years. Sometimes, surprising revelations change the course of the process and force all stakeholders to reassess what needs to be done and why. These “plot twists” are the hallmark of good television, and sometimes life eerily imitates art.
Consider the recent high-profile divorce of Lauren Morelli, a staff writer for Netflix’s Orange is the New Black, as an example of how a revelation can change everything about a relationship.
The Story of Lauren Morelli’s Divorce
Orange is the New Black is loosely based on the real-life story of a woman serving a lengthy prison sentence, years after committing a crime with her then-girlfriend. In the fictional version, the main character breaks up with her male fiancé to rekindle her relationship with her old flame.
Similarly, Lauren Morelli, a writer on the show since fall 2012, was married to Steve Basilone. Shortly after starting her new job, she realized she was gay, ended her marriage, and began dating Samira Wiley, an actress from the show. Morelli has since discussed the positive effects of embracing her true identity.
Challenges LGBT Individuals Face in Divorce
While Morelli’s story has a positive outcome, the process of dissolving a marriage can be difficult for many LGBT individuals. Some unique challenges that may arise include:
1. Spousal “Outings”
A spouse may disclose their partner’s sexual orientation to friends or family before that person is ready to “come out,” whether maliciously or in an attempt to explain the divorce.
2. Extra Complications
When sexual orientation plays a role in a divorce, explaining the decision to children, friends, family, and colleagues may present difficulties, as some may ask probing or difficult questions.
3. Privacy Issues
Even if you’re not a public figure, it can be challenging to maintain privacy during a separation.
Need Help Navigating Your Divorce?
At DiPietro Law Group, we understand that divorces occur for a diverse array of reasons. Whatever your circumstances, we can help you explore your options and work with your spouse to end the marriage fairly and equitably. To schedule a consultation, contact us today at (888) 530-4374.