Sports fans and family lawyers in Northern Virginia alike are still shocked and dismayed by the story of former Baltimore Raven, Ray Rice. The football star, accused of physically abusing his then-fiancée and now wife, Janay Rice, lost his job as a running back for the Ravens after a surveillance video showed him beating his wife unconscious in an elevator.
Legal Consequences
The incident led to domestic abuse charges for both Janay and Ray, although a judge later dropped the charges against Janay. Despite widespread criticism over the assault, Janay has remained loyal to her husband, a stance that has sparked a national conversation about why victims stay with their abusers.
Why Do Victims Stay?
Experts cite a variety of reasons why victims remain in abusive relationships:
- Fear of retaliation.
Homicide rates for women who leave their abusers are significantly higher than for the general population, creating fear of worse violence if they leave. - Financial dependence.
If the abusive spouse provides the primary income, the victim may be reluctant to leave, fearing financial instability. - Children.
A parent may endure abuse to protect children caught in the middle, or to avoid a custody battle or divorce. - Mixed emotions.
Victims may feel anger toward the abuser but may also want to protect them from prison or other consequences.
NFL and Domestic Violence
Several NFL players have faced domestic violence charges, including:
- Frostee Rucker (Arizona Cardinals)
- Randy Starks (Miami Dolphins)
- Donte Whitner (Cleveland Browns)
- Erik Walden (Indianapolis Colts)
- Dez Bryant (Dallas Cowboys)
- Greg Hardy (Carolina Panthers)
- Santonio Holmes and Brandon Marshall (Chicago Bears)
- Kevin Williams and Tony McDaniel (Seattle Seahawks)
- Chris Cook and Ray McDonald (San Francisco 49ers)
Legal Help for Domestic Violence Victims
If you have experienced domestic violence in Northern Virginia, and need legal assistance to protect yourself and your children, the Virginia family lawyers at DiPietro PLLC are here to help. We offer confidential consultations. Contact us today at (888) 530-4374 for the critical support you need.